Sunday, August 13, 2006

No Strings Attached

First of all, I would like to say how happy I am to finally hit 1000 for the blog! It took time, but there you go! =D

I haven't been able to update much, cause I've had exams and a gazillion assignments to do. But they're over and done with. I am now officially on vacation!

I'd like to say how disturbing it is to see some people's preoccupation with having to BE with someone, romantically. How they're classifying themselves single, available and desperate. 0_o

What's wrong with being single?

You get to do whatever you want and not have to worry about what a partner might think, because - obviously - you don't have one to think about.

You have absolutely no - okay, maybe minimal - strings attached. More maneuverability.

Bottom line : Freedom.

Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong in being with someone.

If that person is the right one, you're freedom wouldn't be in jeopardy anyhow.

I'm just saying, if you haven't found that certain someone yet, don't be glum. They're probably looking too, so it's wouldn't do for you to be looking so down about not being in a relationship. Sends off the wrong vibes, you know?

Why not enjoy being single? If you're having fun, chances are you'll look more appealing and at the end of the day, you'll probably get someone hooked on you.

Simple logic. =D

So, embrace being single, I say. It's a part of life. It wouldn't do to shy away from the experience.

3 comments:

Paya said...

i second the motion! yeah!! if u get together with the wrong guy, he might not "let" you shisha! gahh! well yeah we all make mistakes.. but anyway, :) hows shisha he he

maslight said...

so true. I prefer FREEDOM! than being with someone who controls ur freedom~! been there. done that. it sucks~ definately prefer the life i'm at rite now :D JOY! :D

elfiejane said...

yay happy 1000th! lol.